June 25, 2010

Summer is certainly upon us. Sweltering heat and bright sun. Its good to be near the beach! And its BBQ season. A few weeks ago we had a wonderful backyard BBQ to thank our many volunteers. Over 85 people showed up and ate, drank and got to know one another better. The Monday volunteers met the Friday volunteers, etc. And at The Center our volunteer chefs are using the grill a lot. Our residents and our folks who come to lunch each day are enjoying some summer treats from the grill.

Our residents have a "Resident Council" that meets monthly to discuss living at Center House. Recently they held elections and are working on a set of By-Laws. Their meeting this week caused all sorts of excitement. They had the best turnout for a meeting ever and are making plans for a car-wash to raise some funds for a trip to Great Adventure. They are proud of their accomplishments - and rightly so! 

May 12,2010

Now that Center a la Carte has happened - a wonderful night - we get geared up for The Jersey Shore AIDS Walk. The weatherman says it will be a near perfect May Day! The Walk is not only another opportunity to raise some necessary funds but is also a great time to be together, to connect with others involved in the Mission of The Center and to let others know about The Center. On a beautiful Asbury Day there will be strollers on the boardwalk who will see us carrying signs that remind them and all of us that "We are Walking for Friends."  

Aprill 8, 2010

Feeling of summer in the air! Today we'll have our "Day of Reflection" for volunteers at Stella Maris Retreat House in Elberon. It will be a great day to be by the Ocean - and a good day to spend some time musing a bit about why we do what we do - what our relationship is with the folks who walk in the door for lunch or just a cup of coffee. Our volunteers come from a diverse background - retirees, college students, folks who just have some time and want to be here. What is always amazing is the levels of interaction and the different personalities that make up the mix. And of course adding to the mix is the different personalities of the clients, the folks we serve. Its quite a mix - and with rare exception it is a picture of collaboration!

March 17,2010

The temperature is in the sixties - the sun is shining. A great day for the St. Pat's Parade! Finally we have a real hint of Spring. But only a short while ago we we shivering in the cold and tredging through the drifts! This past blast of a winter really was a reminder, a wake-up, an underlining, in a way of what we do, why we spend our time here at The Center. On a number of those days when everything closed down - some things just closed down in anticipation of what was to come - a few of us were able to walk to The Center, to open the doors and just be here in case someone needed something. Most of the volunteers couldn't get through due to the roads and the simple danger of being out. Some just couldn't dig out! But on each of those days we'd have at least 10 or 15 folks who walked in the streets to come in. We had some hot coffee - we had some warm soup (thanks to the Cheescake Factory!) some bread - just some warmth. Personally on the reallyl stormy days I enjoyed being a bit "snowed in". But I live in luxury! I have everything I need and am safe. But some of our folks live in rooms or in places that are cold and drafty. One guy just said he couldn't stand being cooped up in his place - he braved the weather to get to us hopeing that we'd be open. The Center, their "living room" is a haven. The cold blasts of winter reminded us how blessed it is to be able to open the door, to welcome our folks, to ladle out some soup, to let them find some warmth. And the result is that we are nourished - we get warmer - we experience this very special community.